30 Days of Submission: Day Four

4) Do you switch into a dominant role at any time? If you are in a domestic discipline relationship, are there things that you maintain control over? Are you a “switch” in BDSM terms? If not, have you ever thought about it or given thought to why it’s not for you?

There are rare moments, and  I mean really rare, where I switch into a dominant role. I'll do it for my partner if they like, but usually I don't derive anything from it aside from knowing that I'm pleasing them. Sometimes there's just a rare person or day where I feel like being in control.

There are plenty of things I maintain control over in my daily life, and prefer it that way. I don't like being told what to eat, how to eat, how or when to clean. These things are my domain and I do them to please my partner, not because I have to but because I want to.

I am not a switch in BDSM terms, though like I said there's a rare moment here or there usually brought about by a person. I am a brat - I tend to like fighting for submission and the take-down that ensues. I just don't derive much pleasure from topping someone - except in those rare moments or as stated above.