30 Days of Submission: Day Five

5) Have you been or are you in a dominant/submissive dynamic relationship or is this new to you? Have you been in more than one D/s relationship? How were they the same? How were they different? What is unique about your relationships in your mind?

Each individual relationship for me is unique and different. I don't believe any one person can be everything for any one other person. This is not the first D/s relationship I've been in - most of mine have been, and the ones that haven't didn't work out so well.

I am a loving person - some would accuse me of being too much in love with those I care about. Some would call it obsession or lust or some other such label that belittles what I feel. When in a relationship - no matter what the dynamic - I give 110% of myself over to it. This may seem counter-intuitive since I'm firmly polyamorous, but it's possible and I do.

If my Love asked anything of me - anything at all within reason - I would do it for her. For me, D/s isn't so much about a power exchange or a dynamic, it's about being able to express my giving nature in a  way that isn't looked down upon so much. Does that sound vain? I don't mean it to. What I mean to say is that I devote myself to my partners and to have a relationship otherwise seems foreign and alien to me.