Saturday, February 23, 2013

30 Days of Submission: Day 16


16) Have you found your submission has changed with different partners/relationships? If you’re involved with partners of both sexes, does your submission relate or change based on gender or does it depend on the person?

I've found that my submission changes based on relationship. Just as each relationship is unique, so is my interaction in a BDSM sense. With Froggy, for example, we have a more relaxed play-partner relationship, nothing extremely serious because he did not want to interfere with my relationship with my Mistress and because he is still learning and from time to time needs my guidance so I must "top from the bottom" so to speak. With my Mistress, I'm willing to give in completely and totally. It doesn't change based on sex.

However, there are a few people (individual) who bring out my dominant side, and I don't mind exposing it occasionally to those I'm actually involved with if the mood strikes to switch. I'm happy to do it for those I submit to because it brings them pleasure, which ultimately brings me pleasure. So in a way, I'm still submissive. I hope that makes sense.

-Squeaky

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